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异地恋恋爱禁忌
1、忽冷忽热的态度
异地比一般情侣更要情绪稳定给予对方骂定的安全盛无论何时你都会陪伴她而不是让她感到孤独和焦虑
2、习惯性敷衍
她满心期待来跟你分享日常或是委屈时想听听你的安慰你却盒会几句嗯嗯哦好行她的分享欲会被你烧灭
3、否定打击对方
好的恋爱是给人快乐和自信的不要盒指责她的缺点甚至跟别的女生作比较她需要你无条件的偏爱和夸奖
4、逃避沟通解决问题
遇到矛盾两人一起积极面对沉默冷战不能解决任何问题女生希望你来主动沟通化解语气态度最好是温柔平静的
5、不规划两人未来
你要主动规划你们的将来给她一个结束异地的期限并且为之而付诸努力否则她看不到未来的希望