第1个回答 2010-09-03
I would keep quiet. You know, if I were the friend of the couple, I wouldn't wish any one of them to be hurt. Once I tell the other partner, there must be a quarrel between them,and maybe they will divorce. So that both of them will get hurt. All I have to do is keep quiet and make this a secret. However, I will try my best to help them, and tell he/she(the one who is having an affair) that it is wrong and unworthy to have an affair, he/she has to promise that such kind of a thing will never happen again. At the same time, he/she(who is having an affair) should treat the other one much better, and take more care of him/ her( the other one).
第2个回答 2010-09-03
it's really a hard question. you know, you should tell your friends the true whatever it is good or bad. nevertheless, in this case one of the couple tells you his/her affair because s/he treat you as a friend, kinda deep one. if you tell his/her partner, which means you betray his/her trust. what should you do? if i were you i may not say it directly, but i'll show some hints to the one who get betrayed and hope that s/he would know and make his/her own choice. anyway, you should always be there for your friends. :)
第3个回答 2010-09-03
I would keep quiet. Since each of the couple is my friends, a friend means to keep secret for him/her. They tell me the affair because they think I am worthy of believing. If I would be the friend to each of them, I should keep quiet for their secrets respectively.本回答被提问者采纳
第4个回答 2010-09-03
Since friend is one who help you out of it when you are in trouble ,as their friend,i really don't have the heart to just stand by watching them lying to each other. moreover,after a second thought, since one of them is having an affair,something must have gone wrong with their marriage,or maybe they two are no long fit for each other,thus, they need to face the truth that they are having an affair and to solve the problem instead of escaping from it,which in return does harm to both of them, so i will choose to tell them,for the best of them both.
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第5个回答 2010-09-03
I won't keep quiet, but talk to the one who had an affair, and persuad him or her to protect their family responsibly. Since they are both my friends, I will not wait to see the family go to break up. Sometimes love is one thing, betraying is another thing, I would rather see their peaceful divorce, than unmercifully cheating.