第1个回答 2016-02-13
Communication is the communication between people to build a bridge.
1 low-key. No significant mountain, watertight, can not obvious, do not reveal the rich, not play, not grandstanding, not Jixianduneng. Along with others more low-key, there will be good karma, people will be well, something good with. Zeng low-key life, to win good karma; low-key life of Liu Bei, Zhuge Liang Highlighting Please out, won country. Low into the sea, low-cost human king.
2 tolerant. Not tolerant of others who do not deserve forgiving others. So the people overlooked, neglect, damage, misunderstandings, forgive and forget, no heart, not look for an opportunity to retaliate. "Tatu leisurely world can hardly contain the matter, the opening will laugh all ridiculous." Hugo said: "The world's most wide ocean, wider than the ocean is the sky, wider than the sky is the human mind." In dealing with people, if you can have such as Maitreya as be tolerant to diversity of mind, but also What people can not tolerate it?
3. Be modest. Not complacent, not arrogant, does not claim credit, not attracted, the halo of glory set on someone else's neck. Edison was known as "King of the invention." His life provides humans with the size of about two thousand invention, an average of about 15 days. He invented the electric light, telegraph, movies, trams, telephone, batteries, generators, phonograph, etc., and changed profoundly affect human life. His great contribution to human civilization made incalculable. "Great" word crown in front of his name, I am afraid the world is not controversial. People say he is a genius. And he said, "Genius is one percent inspiration and ninety - nine percent perspiration." In the face of great achievements, he stressed the talent but not the sweat, which is modest.
4 more generous. Do not care about, not Tripe farms, not carefully, do not begrudge the money, exchanges warm and generous, kind to others, demanding their own, generous people, Zhang Yi Choi light, the hand on the shot. Generous person popular, popular go anywhere, but a mean person except hang outside money, nothing. Generosity is actually a kind of wisdom.
5 more enthusiasm. He says "Talmud" on: "Please keep your courtesy and enthusiasm, no matter to God, to your friends, or against your enemy." Interpersonal communication is interactive, so to come up with their own enthusiasm, positive engagement truth to be with propriety, enlighten them with reason. Enthusiasm than any violent easier to change people's mind, there is no passion, relationships will become cold, bleak.
6 more frank. Real frank with people is the principle. If you say the wrong thing because of bad temper, hurt people, you have to have the courage to admit a mistake and apologize:. "I'm sorry, I'm a bad temper, to say should not say, I apologize to you"; if dialect no letter, you have to honestly show their point of view: "my friends, you lose the trust, and I am a little disappointed, I hope not to be repeated."
7 more generous. A small amount of heart, the more trouble, the majority of the mind, wisdom fertility. Generous person cardinal, the overall situation, in order to accommodate a heart to treat people and things around. Mao was a great man named Wu orchid farmers cursing, not only did not blame Mao Zedong her, but said she was "a good man dare to speak the truth."; Sage Confucius travel around the world to Zheng, he had been a student in front of Zheng who demoted to "lost dog" Confucius this insulting language laugh. With people is to have Mao Zedong, Confucius generosity. "Friends of the public lost a small amount, a large cluster of friends."
8 more sincere. Honest is the interpersonal relationships to ensure continuity and development, between honest people, in order to understand each other, acceptance, trust, unity in order to get along. Zhang pick up shoes for the elderly in good faith to obtain the original book "grandfather Art of War"; Lu Xun Qu Qiubai most difficult times, adventure to be sincere and selfless help to make them forged a true friendship.
9 more equality. Only differences in social roles and responsibilities range between people, without distinction or distinction, with people to equality, equal treatment, mutual respect, neither haughty nor humble. Can not see the leadership destroy eyebrow bow to see people airs, it is for the little man, absolutely not desirable. Equality is a steelyard, how you people, you people will be like. No equality there is no intercourse.
10 some kind. And human kind, gentle attitude, no one is willing to associate with; on the contrary, aggressive, frosty, scowling, no one would like much of a thousand miles. Ji is a kind of affinity, it closer relations between people. The clerk kindly, full of surplus guests; kindly teacher and students closer; amiable elderly, children and grandchildren around the knee. Nice pair of kindly eyes, a smiling face is nice, is one kind cordial greetings, is a kind of spiritual communication bridge.
11 cautious. Defenses can not do without, there is not harm the heart. Took to the workplace, all sorts of people will be exposed to Huiyanshizhu cautious contacts. An old saying: "with the good living, such as irises and orchids into the room, long and not smell their fragrance, that of men and the poor with Habitat, such as the Baoyuzhisi, a long time without its foul smell, also carry with them of. . "to choose the good people contacts and cross, like-minded people choose and pay. Ya son of the piano case, the song "Mountain and Flowing Water" Writing Masterpieces Concert; Liu Bei, Guan Yu, Zhang Fei fall in love, Taoyuan trio, formed Damon and Pythias.
12 more aggressive. Initiative is a gesture, which is not superior, secrecy gesture. The meeting, party time, after work, to go with the time, waiting for the bus, you can take the initiative to greet someone, to find a common topic discussed this relationship between the two will naturally near.
13 more optimistic. There are two kinds of people in the world, one is optimistic person, a pessimistic person. Optimistic person, would chant, "as the old lady happy evening Song, Ming everywhere Castle Peak sunset", and pessimistic people will lament the face of Dusk "sunset is magnificent, it is almost dusk." And optimistic person exchanges themselves will become optimistic. "Smiling people open to the world", "hand do not fight smiling people," no one will be refused and optimistic people.
14 tolerate more. In the exchanges, contrary to the wishes of his own encounter with things, to control his emotions, not easily vent their dissatisfaction or anger. Forbearance a moment, calm, take a step back, a brighter future. Mazda as in tolerance, its energy debate, it is better able to. Do not think there is always a defeat, one can resolute self-worry.
15 more trustworthy. An old saying: "When a man apt to promise, of a horse." "No letters, can not pay" trustworthy with people is the premise of the word to get people's trust. Shang Yang trustworthy, win hearts and minds, the success of political reform; "Yu-ion" in the rich, untrustworthy, the results of drowning in the river.
16 made less. His tongue to stay third, lowly little opening, ridiculed ridiculed intolerable, bluster will to disaster. When to say it does not retain, MO opening should not say when. To say the words out, spilled water, is difficult to recover. Then more is better then less, then less is better, then good. Some words rot in the stomach than to say it is better.
17 some kind. Everyone likes to good people, change the position, standing on each other's perspective, if you're a good person, then with people still difficult? In the workplace or, in life or, misunderstandings between people, estrangement, resentment, etc. will occur, as long as some good-natured, mutual understanding, misunderstanding, resentment can become a moving and nostalgic memories .本回答被提问者采纳