要是对方没有去查看的话不知道的，把支付宝好友删除了，对方的好友里面还是会显示有好友的。只有通过一些方法才会知道是不是删除了。
如何知道对方有没有删除支付宝好友：
1、手机打开支付宝，点击底端菜单里的朋友，点击朋友后再右上角的放大镜里搜索好友。
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2、选择联系人
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3、这个时候就会进入到跟好友的聊天界面，随便发个信息。这个时候要是显示对方不是好友，就说明被对方给删除了，反之，能把信息发送出去，对方就没有删除支付宝好友。
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