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异地恋五大必经阶段
1、依恋期
刚开始异地的第1-2个月两人还不适应分开的生活仍然想像以往一样黏着对方随时随地会发消息聊天
2、争吵期
当异地来到3-4个月双方对彼此的关庄度出现差距难免因胸通方式/生活安排等爆发激烈争吵或者冷战
3、平淡期
持续异地5-6个月左右渐渐习惯独自一人生活对对方的依恋/埋温都变淡就像波动的湖面回归平静
4、磨合期
其实从异地之初就开始磨合持续时长不定情侣状况不同当对性格/观念/习惯加深了解终究会栈到属干你们的相处节奏
5、舒适期
经历了艰难的磨合期之后两人即使异地也会生活舒适懂得彼此的一切心理和分寸从此互相温暖幸福的陪伴