第1个回答 2010-10-02
To cope with your problem,there are two possible solutions you could adopt to. Firstly, to join a club after class. By doing this, you can meet a lot of friends, since you have the same topic of convefrsation, it will be easy to make friends. And in this way, you can replace you lonliness with a sense of belong. Another thing you can do is talk with your classmates more often. You can help them to deal with subjects problems, or talk about the latest television programs, such as Gossip girl, Big Bang. It is known that emotional interaction could promote friendship.
第2个回答 2023-09-18
Dear Lin Hao,
I am glad to receive your letter, and I understand the feelings of being unfamiliar with the new environment in high school. In fact, it is a common problem for many students. Here are some suggestions that may help you adapt to the new environment and make new friends.
Firstly, you should actively participate in various school activities. These activities provide an excellent opportunity for you to show your talents and interests, as well as an opportunity to meet new friends with common interests. Even if you are not very confident in your abilities, at least you can try to participate in some of the activities you are interested in, such as joining a sports team or a music club, etc.
Secondly, you can join a group or club that aligns with your hobbies or interests. This will help you meet people who have similar interests with you, and also provide you with an opportunity to develop new interests and skills.
Thirdly, you can try to chat with your classmates during breaks or recesses. You can talk about common interests or schoolwork, and gradually establish friendships with them. If you feel uncomfortable or shy to approach others, you can start a conversation by asking them about their hobbies or introducing yourself.
Finally, don't forget to be yourself. High school is a critical time for personal growth and development, and it is important to maintain your own personality and values. If you are true to yourself, you will attract more people who like your unique personality.
Remember that it takes time to adapt to a new environment, and don't be too hard on yourself. You have the ability to overcome this situation. I hope these suggestions can help you.
Best regards,
Li Hua